Losing the Baby Weight
November 11, 2011
I reached my pre-pregnancy weight last week! It took me a little over a month longer than it did with Ava, but I gained about 10lbs more with Claire (gained 32lbs), my pre-pregnancy weight this time was about 7-8lbs less than with Ava, I’m older, and its baby #2
My biggest go-to source was www.lindsaybrin.com (sorry – it wont link!). Lindsay Brin is awesome. I think she is right on. The biggest motivator for me to get the weight off quickly was learning your body is in fat burning mode right after a baby, so you might as well take advantage! The other thing I learned this time (something I have learned so many times but seem to forget), low carb, no carb, no sugar, no this or that diets DONT WORK! A calorie is a calorie and you can have cookies for lunch and still lose weight (you’ll feel like crap but you can still do it!
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Lindsay’s blog has a ton of rules you can do – I think she has one for each day of the month or something and then she says to just focus on that rule that day. That was a little overwhelming for me, and I didnt want to have to think about something new every day. So I decided to pick five rules and just stick to those. I was already exercising (4 pretty intense workouts/week) and then I added the following:
1. eating within parameters. I HATE counting colories so this was such a good thing to learn. Depending on how many calories you can have, you decide between 3 meals and one snack, 3 meals and two snacks or you can do 5 small meals a day. You figure out before hand the approx. amount of calories for each meal and then stick to that. For example, if you can have 1400 cal a day, plan a few different 400 cal breakfasts, 400 cal lunches, 200 cal snack, and 400 cal dinners. The most helpful thing for me is this prevents me from snacking all day, which is easy to do with little kids around. I still eat-out every once in a while and just compensate with a lighter meal later or skip the snack.
2. glass of water before every meal and snack and during every meal and snack.
3. plate method. I only doing this at dinner – 1/2 your plate is veggies, 1/4 you plate is protein of some kind, and the 1/4 can be whatever you want!
4. No eating after dinner. period. By far this is the most helpful rule for me. Your body can be in fat burning mode while you sleep, but if you eat right before bed, your body burns those calories instead. I know this was the biggest key to getting the weight off. Essentially if I go to bed a little hungry, I know I’ll see good results that week!
5. A free day. I decided that if I lost 2lbs that week (when I had 20+ lbs to lose), I got a free day that week. And then as I had less to lose, I did less weight – 1.5lbs, 1lb and now that Ive lost the weight, and I’m in maintenance mode, I’ll continue to have just one free day as long as I don’t gain!
So now my plan is to maintain but still do the above rules because I think they are good habits. The rules ensure you don’t snack all day, you drink enough water, you get enough veggies, and that you dont eat late at night! I will also continue to workout 3-4 times/week. I would like to continue to do 4 but I’ll probably relax a little and just be sure to get in 3.
So I’d love to hear your comments! What has worked for you? What hasn’t?
November 11, 2011 at 6:48 pm
Thanks for sharing Natalie! I am already planning my diet for after Macsen comes…I only have 1 1/2 months to lose the weight before my sister’s wedding!
I will have to start following that blog.
I think the thing that helped me lose weight after Allie the most was having a bland diet- I didn’t want to eat as much because I couldn’t eat anything spicy while nursing. I also made a rule to never eat at night and since I was up at night so often I think I lost a lot of weight that way too. And, of course, nursing always helps a ton.
I am going to try drinking more water this time and hopefully exercising- I didn’t exercise at all right after I had Allie.
November 11, 2011 at 7:38 pm
Yes, thanks for sharing your tips! They are all good! After Maddie my body wouldn’t let me lose the last 8-10 lbs until I stopped breastfeeding. I guess with nursing I was burning too many calories so my body didn’t want to let go of the reserve?? Otherwise, through breatfeeding my body just shed the rest naturally off. And you are right, the extremes NEVER work. If you say “I won’t eat any treats until the new year” then even if you reach your goal it won’t be permanent long term. I try to stick with things that are realistic and then make them my life style. In return it changes things. For example, in general I only eat whole grain. I rarely buy things such as chips and cookies. I try to stay busy… I tend to snack more when I am bored. I eat whatever I want but just eat healthy. Long term I see results that are real. And yes, I drink LOTS and lots of water. No juice, no soda (though lately I haven’t followed that rule).
Good to see you blogging! Very good reminders and tips!
November 12, 2011 at 9:02 pm
Nat-
If you still lived close we could have gone to the gym together. It’s hard to get anything doen with Tim gone all day and all night now.
You are amazing and almost disgusting at the same time. I wish losing weight were easy for me but it’s not at all. I’m trying my best to eat healthy and stick with healthy portion sizes and not snacking. The working out is the hardest part for me, but that’s the part that I need the most